Niba ushaka kongeramo umunezero mwinshi mubikorwa byawe byo kuryama, noneho kubuza uburetwa bwa BDSM gushiraho ibikinisho byuzuye bishobora kuba aribyo ukeneye. Ibi bice mubisanzwe birimo kubuza ibintu bitandukanye, nk'amapingu, imigeri y'ibirenge, hamwe n'umugozi w'ubucakara, kimwe n'ibikinisho byagenewe kunoza uburambe bwawe.
Ubwiza bwibikinisho bifatanye ni uko bushobora guhuza ibyifuzo byinshi, waba uri umuntu wishimira gushimishwa no kubuzwa cyangwa ushaka kugerageza gukina. Izi seti nazo ziratunganye kubatangiye bashaka kwibiza amano kwisi ya BDSM batumva barengewe nibicuruzwa byinshi biboneka.
Kubantu bishimira kumva ko babujijwe, ibikinisho bifatanye akenshi birimo ibintu nkamapingu, amaboko, imigozi, hamwe nu mugozi wubucakara. Ibi birashobora gukoreshwa muguhagarika umukunzi wawe, bigatera kumva intege nke no kwiyegurira bishobora kubyutsa bidasanzwe impande zombi.
Iyo ukoresheje BDSM ubucakara bwashyizweho hamwe nibikinisho byuzuye, itumanaho no kwemererwa ni urufunguzo. Ni ngombwa gushyiraho imipaka nijambo ryizewe mbere yo kwishora muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwo gukina, no guhora ugenzura hamwe numukunzi wawe kugirango umenye neza kandi bishimishe.
Muri rusange, kongeramo ibikinisho byuzuye mubikorwa byawe byo kuryama birashobora kuzana urwego rushya rwo kwishima no kwinezeza mubyo uhuye nabyo. Waba ushaka kugerageza gukinisha ibyiyumvo, kubuza, cyangwa guhuza byombi, ibi bice bitanga uburyo bworoshye kandi butandukanye bwo gucukumbura ibyifuzo byawe no kurushaho kunoza umubano wawe numukunzi wawe.
Noneho, niba witeguye kongeramo ibirungo byinyongera mubuzima bwurukundo, tekereza gushora imari mububata bwa BDSM bwashyizweho nibikinisho byuzuye. Urashobora kuvumbura gusa ishyaka rishya ryo gukina no kwifata bizajyana uburambe bwawe bwimbitse kurwego rushya.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Mutarama-15-2024